Is it tacky to share a birthday wishlist as an adult?
I am turning 30 and my friends asked what I want. Is it weird to send them a wishlist?
3 Answers
Not at all! I think it's more thoughtful than letting people guess. When friends ask, just say "I made a little list of ideas if it helps!" and share your Share Product link.
It saves everyone time and you actually get things you want. Win-win.
Not tacky at all! I think it's actually thoughtful. Here's why:
Why it's NOT tacky:
- People WANT to give you something you'll actually use
- It saves them time and stress trying to guess
- You're not demanding - just providing options
- It prevents duplicate gifts or things you don't want
I share my birthday wishlist every year and my friends and family appreciate it. They say it makes gift-giving easier, and I get things I actually want instead of random stuff.
Just frame it nicely: "If anyone wants gift ideas, here's my wishlist!" Not demanding, just helpful.
I used to think it was tacky, but I changed my mind after seeing how much easier it made things for everyone.
My experience:
I started sharing my wishlist 3 years ago. At first, I was hesitant, but my friends actually thanked me! They said it was so much easier than trying to guess what I wanted.
How to do it tastefully:
- Don't send it unsolicited - wait for people to ask
- Include a range of prices ($10-$200+)
- Add a mix of practical and fun items
- Say "Here are some ideas if you're looking!" not "Buy me these!"
Now I share it every year and it's become a tradition. No one thinks it's tacky - they think it's smart!